Safety Tips for Students - Staying Safe on a Date

Tips for Being Safe on Campus	Living Off-Campus
At a Party	The Facts About Sexual Assault
On a Date	Safety Contact Numbers
Running and Walking Safely	Safety Links

On a Date:

Know that you have the right to set sexual limits
Just because you are sexual with one person, doesn't mean you must be sexual with another. It is a good idea to know what you want or don't want before you end up in a difficult or unwanted situation.

Communicate your limits
Be certain the other person understands your limits. Nonverbal clues seldom work. If you don't feel understood and respected, get away from the person.

Trust your instincts
When you feel uneasy, pay attention. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Get out of the situation immediately. It is often better to endure a few moments of embarrassment than spend years in recovery from an assault. Always carry enough money for a taxi ride home.

Be assertive
If you don't like someone's behavior, send a clear, forceful message.
Be ready for pressure, and follow what you say with action (such as leaving immediately or joining a safe group of friends).

Pay attention to behavior that doesn't feel right

* Someone sitting or standing too close to you who enjoys your discomfort

* Someone speaking or acting as though they know you more intimately than they do

* Power stares - looking through you or down at you

* Someone who blocks your way

* Someone who grabs or pushes you to get their way

* Someone who doesn't listen or disregards what you are saying (like NO

Keep your friends informed as to your whereabouts

Avoid isolation when you go somewhere new
Stay alert to your surroundings and the people around you. Meet in public places until you get to know someone well.

Be careful with alcohol or other drugs
It is unsafe to drink more than you can handle. Any loss of control increases your vulnerability. If you are impaired, call a friend to come and get you.